Being Comfortable without Effort
Written and illustrated by Soo Hyun Kim
Translated by Maria Kristina Carla Rico & Kyungmin Bae
Published: 2020 (original), 2021 (English version)
296 pages | 500 grams | 6 by 7.5 inches
The book that will teach you that the key to forming relationships with others is to first form a loving relationship with yourself, Being Comfortable Without Effort, written and illustrated by Kim Soo-hyun, the sequel to the best selling title, I Decided To Live As Me, is now available in English.
Learn how to build strong relationships
"What if you aren’t beautiful?
What if you aren’t special?
You are complete as you are.
And our life is always precious.”
Even if you don’t pretend to be someone else, there are endless ways to love you. So don’t disguise as someone else. Instead, relax, be sincere in relationships, and show your comfortable self. That’s how to start genuine relationships. You are most lovable when you are the way you are.
Be comfortable the way you are.
Important Reminders in your journey towards happiness
- You don’t need to be fun (be comfortable the way you are)
- Don’t dance to someone else’s tune
- My life is extraordinary but precious
- There is a fundamental solitude that relationships can’t compensate.
- Have the courage to disappoint
- Don’t blame the past for everything
- Express yourself to know the true value of someone
- Develop the language that can protect me
- How to end a fight
- Sow seeds of relationship
- Be affectionate towards yourself
- Live with love at all costs
- Be comfortable without effort