Being Comfortable without Effort: Remembering to Catch Up


When was the last time you spoke to your friends or family members?

For some, they may say today or a few minutes ago. For others, they may pause and realize that it’s been weeks. I find myself in the latter scenario. For example, the last time I talked to one of my best friends from college was months ago. This realization was shocking. It made me reflect and wonder why we didn’t talk as much as we used to. Maybe it was because we both had jobs with completely different schedules. We also lived far from each other, so visiting was quite a challenge. But would this still be the case if I put more effort into contacting my best friend?

Like what Kim Soo-Hyun said in Being Comfortable without Effort, relationships need time and effort. So if that relationship is important to you, you should try calling that person and catching up with them. See what's been going on in their lives and talk. I know I will be after writing this post. 

By doing this, we can strengthen the bonds with the people we cherish and show them how much we care about them. So don’t hesitate! Give that person a call. You might find out that they’ve been waiting for it all this time! ✨